Divorce was finalized August 2023 but equity division so as not to force sa home sale of house we built for them retirement account and firm who fights to not easily roll over or benefits took 5 months. So i bought a phone no man could cancel out, computer to try a blog ways. I might be setteled diwn till the kids settle in but the road knows me, it calls my name now there are two sets of daughters with fathers ashes.